I have always looked like my mothers
daughter, or at least I would have if she looked old enough to be my
mother, that is to say that my mother and I have always been the kind
of mother-daughter duo that often is mistaken for sisters.
I never liked being young. I couldn't
wait to be old enough to be taken seriously. I was so happy to turn
30 that for the whole year, starting in January of my 30th
birthday, when asked I would say, “I'll be 30 this year (my
birthday is in December). I am proud of my crows feet and point out
my 3 gray hairs as bragging rights.
However lately I find that I look less
and less like my mother's daughter, and more and more like my mother.
My husbands (both my current and the former) have assured me that
they did the
check-out-the-mom-to-see-how-she-will-age-before-you-marry-her test
and that I have nothing to be worried about. My mother was carded on
her 40th birthday and as I approach 35 she still doesn't
look old enough to be my mom.
I know that I am no longer young when I
hear that my favorite song from high school is 20 years old and that
the boy that was 5 when I dated his father just went away to college.
The funny thing is that the older I
get, the more I wish people would stop taking me so damn seriously!